As a little girl growing up I didn’t look like my mom. My mom is a lighter tone woman with beautiful type 2c/3a hair that was always either bone straight and when wet it was curly. You see, my mother is Multicultural and my dad is African American he had a darker complexion. When I was a little girl I wanted to looked just like my mom. I wanted her lighter skin and most of all I wanted her beautiful jet black curly fine hair or as the African community would say (GOOD HAIR). Everyone everywhere loved my skin and most of all I wanted her beautiful jet black curly fine hair or as the African community would say (GOOD HAIR). Everyone everywhere loved my mom’s hair, I brought her. I wanted that kind of stares and the oh and ah women and men would give my mom when they would see her. Everyone, everywhere loved my mom’s hair, I mean why wouldn’t they sh was and gorgeous still is and her hair just enhanced her beauty and made her smile even brighter. I wanted that kind of stares and the oh and ah women and men would give my mom when they would see her. I mean, why wouldn’t they she was and still is gorgeous and her hair just enhanced her beauty and made her smile even brighter. I wanted that kind of stares and the oh and ah women and men would give my mom when they would see her.
I grew up in the 80’s and if you grew up in the 80’s you will understand when I say the lighter the better for back then. Think back of the “Precious” movie when Precious would daydream of having a light skin tone boyfriend just because she wants the a baby with “Good Hair”. Good Hair those two words together sticks out doesn’t it? And when you hear those words together as a description of having a light skin tone boyfriend just because she wants a baby with “Good Hair”. Good Hair those two words together sticks out doesn’t it? And when you hear those words together as a description of having a light skin tone boyfriend just because she wants a baby with “Good Hair”. Good Hair those two words together sticks out doesn’t it? And when you hear those words together as a description of an African American woman with fine soft hair. When people think of Good hair it usually comes on ahead of a lighter tone person at times people would assume you must be multicultural to have soft hair. Growing up, I would tell my mom that she was pretty and I wanted to have hair like her. But my mom would tell me I am beautiful and so is my hair; of course, people would tell me otherwise. I was called a nappy head, four eyes (wearing glasses), dark skin and this is just to name a few. Most of the mean marks were from my very own family members. Outsiders were a bit worse though; I would hear remarks such as “Why you don’t look like your mom?” “Why you don’t have hair like her?” Even though my mother and father constantly remind me of how beautiful I was the insults and rude questions were embedded in the back of my head. So I wanted and seek for “Good Hair” I relaxed, chop and weaved my hair until I was 19. Then I let go of the weaves and only relaxed my hair. My first relaxer was at the age on 10. Yes, I said 10 years old. No, I didn’t relax my hair a family member relaxed my hair one day while my mother was at work. smh. in order to keep my hair from falling out my family member and mom had to maintain my hair. Once I enter high school I learn how to relax my own hair and boy did I relax the hell out of my hair. I would not wait the 6-8 weeks to relax the new growth as soon as I saw a curl I would run out, get a relaxer and slap in onto my very little new growth. Yes, queens I was addicted to my hair being bone straight I didn’t care about the health of my hair I just wanted the straight look. Then I began to add a huge amount of heat to my hair; I mean I would press my hair every day before school. I did not like my thick curly hair. I wouldn’t accept it for the life of me.
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Im loving it .. Proud of you Taylor I know for sure u going some where in ur life time auntie loves everything about you and always did… Tru LEADEER
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Thank You Aunt Co, Love you more.
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